Help! My Child Won’t Follow Directions

 

It is important for a child to follow directions because it is how learning takes place. Following directions directly impacts a child’s academic success, social development, as well as performance on daily routines. If a child displays difficulties with following directions, it may not only affect a child’s functioning at home and school, but also affect his/her self-esteem and social life.

Why does this happen? 

A child may struggle to follow directions due to a hearing impairment, language processing disorder, poor attention span, sequencing difficulties, and/or memory deficit.

Milestones for Following Directions 

1:0-2;0 Years Following 1-step commands “Get your shoes”
2;0-3;0 Years Following 2-step related commands “Get your shoes and bring to me”
3;0-4;0 Years Following 2-step related and unrelated commands “Get your shoes and your socks, and put them on”

Signs to Look For 

  • Gives a blank look when prompted with directions
  • Requires repetition of directions
  • Follows directions indirectly
  • Displays distraction when given directions and/or attempting to follow directions
  • Looks to others to follow directions
  • Falls behind age-appropriate milestones 
  • Carries out only one step of multi-step directions

How to Help 

If your child seems to fall behind the milestones for following directions, it is always recommended to receive a full speech-language evaluation. A speech-language pathologist will be able to determine what specific challenges and needs your child may have, and how to best help him/her. 

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