Do you yearn for your child to be more independent with everyday tasks of living? Teaching your child strategies to further develop their self-management skills will foster independence and help him/her build confidence and responsibility. Here are strategies that will teach your child the importance of managing their tasks, emotions, and time:
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Modeling Self-Management: Parents can model self-regulation by managing their own tasks, emotions, and time in a consistent manner
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Following Routines: Establishing routines and expectations helps children understand what is required of them and it creates structure for the child
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Teaching Problem-Solving: Encouraging children to make decisions and solve problems on their own helps them develop critical thinking skills and independence
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Practicing: Giving your kids age-appropriate tasks (making a weekly schedule, keeping assignment notebook organized, organizing their room or belongings, etc.) helps them practice and develop self-management skills
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Positive Reinforcement: Giving your kids praise and encouragement and celebrating successes motives children to continue working on their self-management skills
Developing these skills will take your child time and patience, but it will ultimately lead to your child being more independent and confident across a variety of settings
From am article by: Dr. Linda Z Carling